Goliath wrote:
You're changing the subject. The subject was discrimination in relation to personal preferences. If I say I'm not attracted to transgender women, I don't have to defend that anymore than when I would say I'm not attracted to redheaded women.
This personal preference of yours doesn't seem to have a basis, though. Can you tell me why you aren't attracted to red haired woman (if you are, use another example if you please), and then can you tell me why you are not attracted to transwoman?
Also, weren't you the one who has said in other threads that you don't have a "type" of woman you are attracted to? Because you like to keep your options open or something? I think that was you, but I'm not totally sure.
Goliath wrote:
Like I said to Sotiris, obviously not all men are unattracted to them. That's what we call hyperbole, but you know damn well what hyperbole is and you are very capable of spotting it, I'm sure. "All" is often used that way, as in, for example: "all men watch porn". No, not all men watch porn, it's just an expression to indicate that lots of men watch porn and it's not a rarity. (Although I have no doubt Sotiris would call the PC police on me for being misandrist for saying something like that.)
I never said that you said that literally all men are unattracted to transwoman. I said that you think all transwoman fit a certain catagory which makes them unattractive to you. Is that not correct? I'd like to know what it is about transwoman that makes you unattracted to them, because, yet again, I will say that many transwoman bear no difference from ciswoman. So it would be impossible for you to unattracted to them, because you wouldn't know. Unless of course, you had a serious relationship, because at some point they would probably tell you. And by then, if you loved her, you wouldn't care (assuming, because I still don't know what it is about transwomen that you find unattractive).
Goliath wrote:
The same goes for black women: some are beautiful. Some are not. Some are average. But somehow it isn't discriminatory when I point that some people don't fall for black woman, but it *is* when it's about transgendered women? Biased much?
Because, you are saying some people aren't physically attracted to people who are black. But you can't say people aren't physically attracted to transwoman, because some look, and act the same as any other woman, and there is nothing to determine they are trans. So there is nothing there to be a turn off. However, almost all "black" woman are dark skinned, and you can tell they are black (some people who are half black pass as white, and then many who usually turn down black people because they are black are physically attracted to those individuals that look "white" but are still half black).
Goliath wrote:
Alphapanchito wrote:
No. Not all transwoman are like that. You seen to share that mainstream media view that transwoman are huge, burly "woman" with stubble and deep voices. It's just so laughable.
Where the f--- did I say that? I was just making up a new comparison because I had already used the black guy amongst the white men. So I came up with the tall guy example. Doesn't mean I think transgender people are like that. I thought you knew how comparisons worked.
I added burly with stubble and deep voices, because by then i thought you totally thought that transwoman all fit into the media's sterotypes, and I was completing the visual I thought you had. If you don't think all transwoman are tall or have other features that "out" them as trans, why are you unattracted to them? What about them makes them unattractive. Is it only because they belong to a certain group (discrimination)?
Goliath wrote:
Alphapanchito wrote:
I don't feel that you explained how saying that men aren't attracted to people that look, act, and are the same as any other woman is not discrimination.
Well it's not exactly a matter of feeling, as it is of reading.
Can you point out where you explained to me why you are not attracted to a whole group of people that is no different from any other woman except for something they had to deal with in their past? That would help me see that this isn't discrimination.
Goliath wrote:
Alphapanchito wrote:
Because you don't like red haired woman because you aren't attracted to the physical attribute of red hair. Transwoman do not have defining attributes like that, except in very extreme cases. So saying you aren't attracted to all transwomen means you aren't attracted to them solely because you belong to another group. I know I am repeating myself, but you continue to think that they do, which is just plain false.
Doesn't matter. I'm still comparing one group (redheaded women) to another group (transgendered women) and you still want me to apply a double standard. Which I refuse.
People with red hair share a physical quality. Transwoman share an internal issue from birth that they may have dealt with long ago and show no signs of being any different from any other woman. Some transwoman have red hair; feel free to not be attracted to those. Feel free to not be attracted to anything you aren't attracted to on any woman. But can you tell me you are unattracted to an
event that a person experienced in their life? Thats.. interesting.